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Opportunities in Diaspora

Living in the diaspora opens the door to countless opportunities. It’s a transformative experience that builds resilience, expands your horizons, and connects you to a global network. These advantages are not just incidental; they are tools to craft a future that’s bigger than you imagined. Every day, your experiences abroad shape you into a more resourceful and insightful individual.

When my daughter was young, she’d often talk about getting a tattoo. Naturally, as a mother, I opposed the idea vehemently. But one day, she surprised me. She said, “If I were to get a tattoo, it would be something that reminds me of you.” That stopped me in my tracks, and I asked, “What would you choose?” Without much thought, she said a body magic and a wooden spoon.

At the time, those two items defined me—I was running a café in the central business district while simultaneously building a network marketing business selling Ardyss body magic. My life as a serial entrepreneur was labelled hustling back then, but looking back, it was a training ground for a future I hadn’t yet envisioned.

Fast forward 10, 15, even 20 years; those “hustles” provided invaluable insights into various challenges people face. Today, I confidently consult on multiple business opportunities, drawing from a deep well of lived experiences. As a returnee consultant, I have firsthand knowledge of the diaspora grind, the fears of coming back home, and the uncertainties that linger—questions about security, currency exchange, and reintegrating into local life.

But let’s not forget the blessings inherent in returning to Nigeria. There’s a unique joy in giving back to your people, working and living on your own terms, and witnessing personal growth in a familiar yet evolving environment. There’s the music, the food, the vibrant parties, the sense of community, and the unique vibe of the city. Even the madness of traffic and the audacity of street life bring their own charm. From street food to fine dining and emerging trends, being part of this evolving society feels like coming full circle.

Living in diaspora equips you with a wealth of knowledge and experience that sets you apart. The opportunities you’ve gained, the resilience you’ve built, and the networks you’ve established are your unique assets. These can help you live the life of your dreams while giving back and making an impact at home.

Is it easy? No, it isn’t. But can it be made easier? Absolutely. That’s where I come in. With my expertise as a relocation consultant, I help diasporans navigate the complexities of returning home with clarity and confidence.

Don’t let fear hold you back. Your relocation dream is achievable, and I’m here to guide you every step of the way. Let’s make it happen together.

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Who’s At The Goalpost

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As we step into the new year, it’s that time when everyone is buzzing with new resolutions and goals. Many of us are focused on making big life changes—whether it’s transitioning into retirement, relocating to a new place, or even returning home after years abroad. We also see common goals like improving finances, building better relationships, or even pursuing personal wellness like weight loss.

While these goals are admirable, there’s one major pitfall: they often become fleeting trends. By March or April, many find themselves back where they started, with only a few determined souls making it to the finish line. But why does this happen?

Bottomline

It all comes down to preparation, particularly of the mind. Before setting any major goals for the next phase of your life—whether you’re retiring, relocating, or returning to your home country—it’s crucial to mentally prepare for their actualization. The foundation of any successful transition begins in your mind. If you can see the end result clearly, you are already halfway there.

For instance, if you’re planning to relocate or return home after years abroad, envision your new life. Picture the house, the neighborhood, the connections you’ll rebuild. If you’re preparing for retirement, focus on what your ideal lifestyle will look like—whether it’s a new passion project, steady passive income, or simply spending more time with loved ones. Embed this vision into your subconscious mind and walk through each day with that end goal already in sight.

The great news? You’re in control. Whether you’re retiring, relocating, or embarking on a new chapter as a returnee, you are the driver of your own destiny. Achieving your desired goals is entirely dependent on your commitment. Lay a solid foundation by cultivating your mindset, living each day as if your desired outcome is already here, and take consistent action toward it.

Imagine

Imagine three months down the road: will you be celebrating progress or restarting the same old game, just like last year? With the right mindset, you’ll be applauding how far you’ve come instead of starting over.

Remember, you were born to win, and “#YHTK (You Hold the Key).” This new year, step confidently into your retirement, relocation, or return journey, knowing that the victory is already yours.

Happy New Year!

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Relocation – Vision in focus

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29 years ago, during my time as an airline hostess, I met my husband, who also worked for the same airline. We were both part of the cabin crew department, and it was there our story began. Our wedding, aptly tagged “Loud in Lagos,” was nothing short of spectacular. Surrounded by family, friends, and colleagues, we celebrated a memorable day that still warms my heart.

For decades, life took us on a journey far from home as we migrated and built a life abroad. However, my heart carried the motherland’s call, and eventually I found my way back. Returning home has been one of the most fulfilling chapters of my life, and I’m often reminded of this by conversations with friends still in the diaspora. A recent call from a dear friend made me smile when she said, “Busola, you are living my dream.”

Photoshoot session with mom—joys of coming home.

The joys of returning home are numerous, but one moment stands out in particular. I recently attended the wedding of my former colleague’s son, which was a beautiful celebration and a heartwarming reunion rolled into one. Seeing faces I hadn’t encountered in almost 30 years and trying to match names to those faces brought back a flood of memories. The laughter, the nostalgia, and the connections reignited reminded me why returning home is such a gift.

For anyone contemplating relocation back to the motherland, I understand the mixture of excitement and fear that accompanies such a decision. It’s natural to feel apprehensive about the unknown, but I’m here to help clear away those cobwebs clouding your vision. Together, we can turn your dream of returning home into a reality that aligns with your purpose and aspirations.

As we step into a new year, let this be your time to keep your vision in focus. Remember, the journey home isn’t just about returning to a place—it’s about rediscovering a part of yourself and embracing the community that shaped you. Let’s make it happen together.

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Final Guiding Words & Meanings

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As the year comes to a close, I’m excited to share my final reflections and intentions for a successful New Year transition into 2025. There’s a sense of anticipation, like a child waiting for Santa, as I look forward to what the coming year holds. Throughout this past year, certain guiding words have brought me opportunity, growth, and clarity. These powerful tools have shaped my journey, and I’m carrying them forward with purpose into the New Year. May these guiding words inspire your own successful New Year transition and set the stage for a fulfilling 2025.

Guiding Words & Meanings

Simplify – Don’t overcomplicate things. Less is more.
Intention – Wake up with purpose and carry it throughout your day, executing your goals with clear intention.
Mindfulness – A skill to strengthen for achieving goals.
Affirmation/Declaration/Confession – Three words, one meaning. Keep your words positive.
Manifestation = Faith in action – Bringing dreams to life with action.
Journal – Write it down and make it plain. It’s good for clarity and capturing memories.
Reflection – Look back to learn and grow.
Balance – Essential for a successful life.
Overwhelm – A mindset to check and avoid.
Legacy – Our responsibility to humanity.
Expectation – The mindset that brings your needs to fruition.
Happy – A constant mindset, often shown through spontaneous smiles.
Freedom – Your right to live authentically and fully.
Impact – The lives you touch and improve.
Empowerment – Inspiring others to become their best in any aspect of life.
Purpose – Your reason for being.
Attitude – One word: GRATITUDE. The secret to a fulfilling life.
Worry – Often unnecessary; things resolve with minimal action.
Time – The priceless essence of life.
Identity – Knowing exactly who you are, without doubt.

These words have brought joy, clarity, and purpose to my life in 2024, and I hope they do the same for you. May 2025 be a year of vision and fulfillment.

Let’s get ready to make it amazing. Happy New Year in advance, and always remember: #YHTK (You Hold The Key).

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Winding Down

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As the year winds down, many people are gearing up for the festive season—Christmas, New Year, and all the celebrations in between. At the same time, others are looking ahead, reflecting on the past year, and planning for new goals, adventures, or even a big life change like retirement or relocation. It’s that time of year when planning takes center stage, and you begin to map out what’s next for you.

Before long, January will be here, and you’ll likely be asked, “What’s your New Year’s resolution?” or hear someone asking others the same. It’s human nature to strive for success, to seek growth in all areas of life. I recall my sister sharing a story about a friend’s family Christmas tradition where they hold accountability sessions. Each family member discusses their achievements from the past year and lays out their goals for the next. While I’ve never been part of these gatherings, what is obvious to anyone observing this family is their consistent success.

This got me thinking about the power of the mind. Our minds are truly the engines behind every achievement. The mind is where ideas are created, processed, and executed. It’s where plans are born and strategies are developed. In essence, the mind is our personal boardroom, factory, and marketplace—all in one. What you think and believe about yourself directly influences what you’ll achieve.

Take, for instance, the notion that some people feel they aren’t good at “sales.” Yet, every time you introduce yourself to someone, you are, in a way, selling. Whether you’re pitching your business or simply sharing who you are, you’re already in the process of selling an idea—yourself. That’s why cultivating your mindset with intention is so crucial.

Mindfulness is a popular topic these days, but it’s more than just being present; it’s about having clear intentions behind your actions. When you focus your thoughts, desires, and plans, and direct them toward tangible goals, that’s when you start to see real magic happen.

Here’s a simple approach to making it work:

1. Start your day with intention. Set clear goals and focus on achieving them.
2. Carry out tasks mindfully. Understand why you’re doing what you’re doing and how it ties into your bigger goals.
3. Reflect and celebrate. At the end of each day, take a moment to review your progress, celebrate your wins, and identify areas for improvement.
4. Plan ahead. Before bed, think about tomorrow’s goals with a focused and mindful attitude.
5. Document your journey. Keep a journal to track your progress, making sure to note what works and where adjustments are needed.

With this strategy, you’ll be amazed at how much progress you can make in a short period of time. Whether you’re planning for a new career path, preparing for relocation, or seeking to make the most of your retirement, the time for clarity is now.

Sometimes, all it takes is a small tweak to someone else’s strategy to unlock your own potential. Stay mindful, stay consistent, and you’ll soon watch your dreams unfold into reality.

#YHTK (You Hold The Key).

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How Much?

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What Are You Worth in Your Own Eyes?

As you approach retirement or plan your next steps, whether it’s relocating or starting a new venture, the value you place on yourself plays a critical role in determining your success—and yes, even your pricing. When determining what to charge for your products or services in this next chapter, the first question you need to ask yourself is: “What are you worth in your own eyes?”

Understanding Confidence and Value

Confidence isn’t about mimicking what you admire in others; it comes from a deeper place—the knowledge of who you truly are. If you’re feeling uncertain about your worth, particularly as you transition into retirement or a new business, remember that insecurity often stems from not fully recognizing your own value.

Consider this: Why do people treat you the way they do? Often, it’s because of the signals you unconsciously send about how you see yourself. If you don’t place a high value on your time, skills, or experience, why would others? When you’re determining your pricing in retirement—whether it’s for consulting, coaching, or any service you’re offering—the value starts with how you see yourself.

Self-Worth Affects Pricing

Many people, especially those transitioning into retirement, struggle with self-doubt or insecurity. They question whether they’re worth what they want to charge. But here’s the truth: people will value you based on how much you value yourself. If you set low prices, fearing people won’t pay more, you’re reflecting that lack of confidence. Just like planting an apple seed won’t give you a banana tree, charging too little won’t yield the respect or revenue you desire.

Take the time to assess the wealth of experience and expertise you’ve gained over the years. You’re not just selling a service; you’re offering a lifetime of skills, wisdom, and unique perspectives that hold significant value. Start by asking yourself:

– What unique skills do I bring to the table?
– How much experience do I have that others lack?
– What transformation can I offer my clients?

The answers to these questions will help you determine the true worth of your services.

Placing Value on Yourself

When you believe you’re worth the price you charge, others will too. Think of it this way: if you don’t respect your own time, expertise, and value, why would anyone else? It’s like planting the wrong seed and expecting the wrong harvest—if you undervalue yourself, you’ll attract clients who undervalue you too.

The key is to shift your mindset. Start acknowledging your strengths and your achievements, and let go of the need for approval from others. You’re entering a stage in life where your experience is your greatest asset, and it’s time to charge accordingly.

Example of Value-Driven Pricing

Imagine Sarah, a seniorpreneur launching her consultancy business post-retirement. She’s hesitant to charge premium prices because she fears clients will go elsewhere. But Sarah has spent 30 years in the industry, honed her skills, and mentored dozens of people. Once she realized the unique value she brings—her deep expertise and ability to solve clients’ problems—she confidently set higher prices. And guess what? Clients respected her more and were willing to pay for her years of experience.

Shift Your Belief System

The world will see you the way you see yourself. If you see yourself as valuable, clients will too. If you focus on your flaws, you’ll diminish your worth in your own eyes, and that will reflect in how you price yourself. But if you acknowledge both your strengths and areas for improvement while staying focused on the value you provide, your pricing will naturally align with your worth.

Ask yourself: *What are the good things going for me?* Start counting them. Your years of experience, your network, your expertise, your unique story—these all add value. The more you recognize your own worth, the more confident you’ll feel when determining the price for your services.

Final Thought: Value Yourself First

If you want others to see value in you, you need to start by seeing value in yourself. Retirement is not an end; it’s a new beginning. Whether you’re launching a new business, consulting, or taking on a part-time role, you must set your prices based on the full measure of the value you bring. So, take a moment to reflect on your worth and ensure your pricing reflects the experience, skills, and insight you’ve gained over the years.

Remember, “You Hold The Key” (#YHTK) to how the world values you. Place the right price on yourself, and others will follow.

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My Definitions

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Getting to know yourself is one of the greatest gifts you can give yourself. Sadly, too many people go through life without ever unlocking the answers to who they truly are, why they’re here, and how they fit into the larger puzzle of life. It’s a journey that many leave unfinished.

I have deep appreciation for all the coaches who dedicate their lives to helping others on their path of self-discovery. I, too, once found myself questioning my purpose and searching for meaning. Through that journey, I came to understand myself and my unique role in this ecosystem we share.

Today, I want to share my daily mini-affirmation—a pocket-sized reminder of my purpose and intentions. It’s a snapshot of the essence I’ve come to embrace. In future posts, I’ll dive into each tag word, sharing how these affirmations became part of my journey and what they mean to me.

This affirmation grounds me each day, and I hope it can inspire you on your own path to self-discovery.

This is my life

My tag words are: Magnet, Flow, Resourceful and Humble

I have superpowers in my imagination, will, perception, logic, reason, intuition and memory.

I am part of the decision-makers and therefore not on the agenda

I am on a 500/month impact mission. starting from July 2021 and compounding

I am delighted to have clients who understand the importance of building legacies. They don’t question my worth. They see value in my delivery.

I am highly intelligent, intuitive, different and full of wisdom

God himself educates me

I am RESOURCEFUL, FEARLESS and a BORN-WINNER at all times.

My faith in God is unshakeable. He has proven himself to me in numerous ways. I grow daily.

I am the STAR of my own inspirational and adventurous movie.

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Progress……Halt!

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As you approach retirement or consider relocating, the desire for a better life and a successful transition is natural. Whether it’s finally having time to enjoy your passions or planning your move to a dream destination, there’s always a vision for progress in this new chapter. You’ve set your goals—financial stability, a peaceful retirement, or reconnecting with your roots. You’ve worked hard, but sometimes it feels like you’re not getting any closer. Sound familiar?

What often holds us back are invisible barriers—things we can’t quite put our finger on but that slow our momentum. It’s like being stuck in quicksand, trying to move forward but finding yourself sinking. Surprisingly, one of the biggest mission stoppers isn’t a physical obstacle; it’s our own mind.

The Power of Negative Thoughts

Imagine you’ve decided to relocate back to your home country after spending decades abroad. You’re excited, but then the doubts creep in: “What if I can’t adapt? What if I don’t have enough money? What if my skills are no longer relevant back home?” These thoughts can become so overwhelming that you freeze, unable to take the next step. You end up putting off your plans for years, trapped by a fear that hasn’t even materialized yet.

Negative thoughts are a sneaky enemy. They tell you that you’re not ready, you don’t know enough, you’ll fail, or that it’s too late. But here’s the truth: once you learn to challenge these thoughts, you’re already on your way to winning.

How Negative Thoughts Stop Progress

Take the example of John, a soon-to-be retiree. He had always dreamed of returning to his home country after retirement to build a small guesthouse. But as retirement drew closer, he started doubting himself. “What if I don’t have the right permits? What if the locals don’t accept me after so many years abroad? What if I can’t manage the business at my age?” Instead of planning, he spent years stuck in indecision, delaying his dream and feeling frustrated.

Or think of Maria, who wanted to start a small online consultancy in retirement, helping new immigrants transition to life in a new country. She was passionate and experienced but kept thinking, “I’m not tech-savvy enough for an online business. What if no one wants my services?” Maria almost didn’t move forward, until one day she realized that her negative thoughts were just that—thoughts, not facts.

How to Overcome Negative Thoughts

Here’s the good news: just as negative thoughts are created in the mind, they can be uncreated. The process starts with recognizing them for what they are—just limiting beliefs, not reality.

1. Start with Positive Affirmations: Instead of “I can’t relocate, it’s too difficult,” shift your mindset to “I am fully capable of planning my relocation and will adapt to my new life.” Repeating positive affirmations rewires your brain to focus on possibilities, not obstacles.

2. Surround Yourself with Positive Input: Whether it’s listening to uplifting podcasts, joining supportive online communities, or talking to people who have successfully retired or relocated, immerse yourself in positivity. For example, immigrant returnee forums can be a great place to hear about real-life success stories that will motivate you to keep going.

3. Take Action One Step at a Time: Sometimes, the fear of failure is simply the fear of the unknown. Start by taking small steps—whether it’s researching your new destination, brushing up on a skill, or getting financial advice. With every step, your confidence will grow.

4. Believe in the Power of Change: As Napoleon Hill famously said, “What the mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve.” If you believe that retirement or relocation will be a smooth and rewarding experience, you’re halfway there. The belief isn’t just about hoping for the best; it’s about taking action to turn that belief into reality.

Maria’s Turnaround

Maria, who was once paralyzed by the fear of her lack of tech skills, took action. She enrolled in a digital marketing program that channelled her growth at her own pace, built her confidence, and launched her consultancy. Today, she’s helping immigrants all over the world, and she can’t believe she almost let her negative thoughts hold her back.

Time to Change the Game

The truth is, the only thing standing between you and your goals is the belief that you can achieve them. If you’re planning for retirement, especially one that involves relocation, now is the time to shift your mindset and take control of your future.

Start believing in yourself:

– “I can make this move.”
– “I will adjust to a new environment.”
– “I have the skills to make this work.”
– “I am capable of building new connections and thriving in retirement.”

You are in the driver’s seat of your life. Don’t let flimsy, negative thoughts tell you otherwise. It’s always impossible until it’s done, but you have the power to make it possible. You hold the key to your future. #YHTK (You Hold The Key).

Now, take that step forward. Embrace your new chapter with confidence.

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Upfront Payment

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One of the most crucial parts of my retirement preparation was developing a strong mental mindset. While I was still working for someone else, I made a conscious decision to wake up each day and serve myself first, as if I were already retired. I practiced what my post-retirement life would look like, playing it out in my imagination and living it in real-time.

During my working days, I dedicated my early morning hours to activities that would benefit my future self. Whether it was engaging in online trading or blogging, I committed two hours a day to what I now recognize as my digital marketing business. I was sowing seeds into my future without even knowing it. By prioritizing my own projects before heading to work, I effectively paid myself first. This proactive approach added a spring to my step and a sense of fulfillment, regardless of how demanding the day might become.

Even on days when I returned home exhausted, the knowledge that I had already invested time in my dreams and plans gave me a sense of accomplishment. If I had the energy, I would continue to work on my goals—organizing my coaching portfolio, planning strategies for clients, and refining my delivery. There was always something to be done to ensure my vision was progressing.

Non-working days were a different ball game entirely, offering even more opportunities for personal growth and development. My daily affirmations, mirror routine, bedtime routine, and the intentional seeding of positive thoughts have all shaped me into the person I am today. This consistent practice has made my current reality so exciting that I feel compelled to share it with you, my pre-retiring friends.

Imagine waking up every day, knowing you’ve already invested in yourself and your future. This practice not only prepares you for a fulfilling retirement but also enhances your present life. By serving yourself first, you create a solid foundation for your dreams, ensuring that no matter what challenges come your way, you are always moving forward.

My journey from pre-retirement to a happy, fulfilled post-retirement life is proof that this strategy works. So, I invite you to start paying yourself first. Dedicate time to your dreams, envision your future, and live it out now. Your future self will thank you, and your retirement will be everything you’ve dreamed of and more.

Stay tuned for more insights and practical tips on how to shape your mindset and routines to achieve a fulfilling retirement. Let’s embark on this journey together, paving the way for a future filled with purpose and joy.

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Hamster Wheel Choices

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Choices on a Hamster Wheel?

If you’re nearing retirement or considering a relocation, you may find yourself grappling with decisions, much like younger people do when choosing a career. Many of us, even in later stages of life, struggle with shifting paths—whether it’s changing careers, trying different industries, or exploring new investments. This often feels like running on a hamster wheel, constantly in search of that one “perfect” or most lucrative option.

Decisions, Decisions, Decisions!

Every day, we’re confronted with choices: What to eat, where to go, how to plan the next chapter of our lives. Some people make decisions with ease, while others endlessly search for the perfect, error-free solution. But here’s the truth—there’s no such thing as a perfect decision, especially when planning for retirement or a major relocation. The key is to be flexible yet structured, and to ground your decisions in what truly matters.

If you want to ensure success as you move forward in life, focus on the 3Ps: “People, Purpose, and Profit.”

People: The Cornerstone of Success

No matter what chapter of life you’re in—whether retiring, relocating, or starting something new—people are essential. They are the very reason the world exists. In the marketplace, they are your customers, clients, collaborators, and even mentors. To succeed, you must focus on what people need and how you can provide value to them. Ask yourself:

– What problems do they have that I can solve?
– How can I use my skills, experience, and insight to serve others?

By focusing on the needs of others and delivering real value, you’ll find that people not only support you but help build your success. Especially in retirement or a new venture, your network of people becomes your greatest asset.

Purpose: The Heart of Fulfillment

If you’re simply going through the motions—jumping from one venture to another without real passion or purpose—you’ll feel stuck, much like a hamster on a wheel. It’s crucial to reconnect with your life’s purpose. Why were you born? What do you want your legacy to be? In retirement, this question becomes even more important because it’s not just about earning money; it’s about fulfilling the purpose that gives you contentment.

Finding purpose helps you focus on what matters most, and it fuels your energy and drive, even as you approach new chapters like relocation or retirement.

Profit: Measuring What’s Worth Your Time

Whether you’re looking for financial gain, personal satisfaction, or emotional fulfillment, profit should be part of your decision-making process. Every activity you engage in—whether it’s starting a small business, consulting, or planning your move to a new location—should bring some benefit to your life. Evaluate the time you spend and make sure it’s profitable, whether through income, personal growth, or making a lasting impact.

Balance Leads to LIFE

When you balance “People, Purpose, and Profit”, you don’t just survive—you thrive. You experience what I call “LIFE”: Legacy, Impact, Freedom, and Empowerment. That’s what makes for a fulfilling retirement, a successful relocation, or a meaningful second act in life. You’ll not only live a happier life, but leave a footprint that others will follow, ensuring your legacy lives on.

So, as you plan your next steps, remember that “You Hold The Key (#YHTK)” to your own success. Focus on the 3Ps, make purposeful decisions, and step off that hamster wheel—into a life filled with meaning and value.

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