One of mine was my bed time routine. I would have my shower at night and change into my nightwear. Like a new bride preparing to meet her lover, I would find my favourite perfume and cuddle up to…
Author Archives: Busola
Let’s just say Reflection.
When someone says something that resonates with another, the neck drops a couple of times. The degree of agreement determines the frequency and number of nods. We all do it. Some people doing it consciously as an NLP anchoring….
Power of Yes!
Some people are experts at saying NO and do so at their own peril, while some say yes even to their own detriment. When and how then can we strike the balance. I remember writing the story of a dedicated young lady, who was invited to speak at a leadership conference and turned up veryContinue reading “Power of Yes!”
When the Robber…….
Since getting clarity on the saying; when the rubber meets the road, my imagination is better fed to deliver …..
Who’s coming along?
Then came the questions and answer session, and another phase of learning from other people’s perspectives emerged. What blew me away was the ……
Peace maker or Pace maker
In a world where arguments, broken homes and relationships is the order of the day, there is a greater need and urgency for solution providers before things escalate. What difference would it be to have water poured over the fire spark before it becomes a full blown blaze. For as long as we are notContinue reading “Peace maker or Pace maker”
Ready, Fire, AIM!
The first time I heard the expression, I thought to myself; that cannot be right. How can you prepare for a thing, execute it and then position yourself? Should you not get ready first, aim and then fire? We are used to being told to get ready when opportunity comes knocking. We are familiar withContinue reading “Ready, Fire, AIM!”
Contentment Vs Self-Actualization
One of the most inspiring videos I have had the opportunity to come across, tells the story of a contented woman. I watched this video at a time when the world was in chaos and world leaders could barely sleep. Families were dying all over the globe and death toll on a daily basis was the highlight of media channels…
From Whispers To Statutes
The innate power of every woman to design and change the story of humanity begins from baby whispers, classroom whispers, table whispers, bedroom whispers
Scars and Medals
Do you have scars from yesteryears to look back on, reminding you that the struggle was real? If you are here today, then you walked through ……
How to live a worry free life
I have always been accused of sauntering through life like I have no problem. What people fail to understand is the fact that I do not entertain fear, worry or anxiety. I have learnt to live my worry free life by doing four
Quarantined moms
A woman’s role is beyond description. Once a baby with no clue of what the world holds, she grows up into a girl with lofty dreams and then a woman of vision. Yet she sets all that aside for a full time job of patiently listening, praying,….
Progress? Halt!
Since negative thought is a problem from the mind, you need to tackle it at source. First, you start by meditating on the positive, then hearing it so often around you by audio listening or ……………..
How Much?
Think about why people treat you the way you are treated. Confidence in carriage does not arise from copying what you like in other people. Confidence is a product of knowledge…….
The 3P’s of success
Flexibility is important in life and so is structure. Do not be caught at either extreme. What ever you decide to do in life, if you want success along its lines, be sure it is centred around the 3Ps.
That One Moment!
I constantly preach a message of savings and investment to my children, because I was one of those in my generation who got formal education instead of financial education. Thankfully, I copped on before it was too late. I want them to be financially independent and retired from the rat race at an early age. Yet, there is that one missing……….
Stumbling Blocks
My reaction brought back the memory of a young girl who got an ambassadorial role for a renowned charity, as a result of winning a pageant……. She delivered an awesome motivating speech to the girls and when leaving called me aside to apologize for her lateness. Her excuse; her……………
Stay off the goals
All these goals, while they are good in themselves, the only bad thing is they are usually a January trend. The slightly better ones hang around till March or April and……..
Final words
It’s the last post for this year and I am super excited and sincerely words defy me in explaining my enthusiasm for the new year. In all sincerity, I feel like a five year old kid, awaiting Santa to drop the goodies. All for the transition into 2020. I am compelled to share some of the operating key….
Power House
Every right thinking human being wants success on all levels. I recall my sister telling me about a friend of hers whose family Christmas tradition included ……..
