If you think your current situation will change just because you strongly desire the change , then you are funny. When you start taking action, then will you experience positive change including learning through obstacles.
If you think people will always understand that your decisions are based on your past experiences, then you are funny. People don’t spend time evaluating the basis of your why. They simply judge your action and judge you in the process.
So live your life free of their opinion and take your decisions based on your best interest. However, don’t be a jerk.
So now , stop clowning and get down to purposeful living after all you hold the key #YHTK